Hey girlies!

Okay, I have to admit it... I search the web for celebrity gossip often. Yeah, I know right? That's my only vice. Strange because I don't read it to spread the gossip, I just like reading it. Strange, I know. Somehow, it keeps me in the loop because I don't listen to certain music and I do work with teens.

Anyway, today I was looking at one particular website and it compared the looks between two young ladies who grew up before the camera on TV. They are both very beautiful young ladies. I actually recall watching them on TV and seeing them grow up before the camera.

After comparing the two, one picture had on it, "She's cute" and the other had the words, "But she's a banger!"

I just sat and looked at the word banger and I thought, "Is this what it has come to? That girls are now thought of as bangers?" What does banger mean? Banger is a term that guys use for women/girls they want to have sex with. They normally say, "I want to bang her" or "She is a banger."

Young ladies, you are not a banger! Don't let anyone degrade your queendom by lowering you to the level of just being "banging" material. You are not a piece of meat! A butcher bangs a piece of meat to tenderize it. That's now what or who you are!

You are a beautiful young woman of God, created in the likeness of His image, fearfully and wonderfully made. A guy may call you beautiful, goregous, cute, pretty, etc. but you are not a banger! Don't accept words like that [negative words] spoken to you or about you no matter how cute they may sound, nor who is saying them to you. 

Well, until next time... get it girl! 

Ms. Dea~